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Expert Gives Tips for Sex After 60

Mature adults re-entering the dating scene will appreciate the new book by Susan Kiner, Sex After 60-New Rules for Dating for the Next Third of Your Life. It provides helpful advice on gracefully starting over in the dating scene.

About the Book

LTK: Why did you feel there was a need for this book?


  • After reading my novels (a series in which the protagonist is a single over 50 securities attorney, who enjoys a lusty love life) many of my friends suggested I write, Sex After 60 - New Rules For Dating For the Next Third of Your Life.
  • A major difference between Baby Boomers and previous generations is that they will be economically stronger than the preceding generation. This is primarily because more Baby Boom women are having careers, while their mothers did not. As a result, they will enjoy two pension checks and two social security checks. It will be less likely that a woman who has survived her husband will live off only a survivor benefit. It's more probable that a widow will live off a survivor benefit plus her own pension and social security income.
  • For better or worse, there have been alterations in the beliefs and rules governing courtship, marriage, family formation, divorce, and definitions of accepted gender related behavior.
  • The fact that many Baby Boomers are retiring or are approaching retirement, thus obliging husbands and wives to spend much more time together than ever before, has also led to older people seeking divorce.

LTK: What groundwork did you do to prepare for this book?

Susan Kiner: I interviewed extensively for the book, not confining myself to women or to the over 60. Some of the most terrific interviews conducted were with men. Then I did exhaustive research about women's health issues, how to make senses (touch, sight, smell, etc.) work for you, the best places to meet men (both geographically - where in the country are the most single mature men - and how to meet them in your own home town).

LTK: How is the dating scene different for those over 60?

Susan Kiner: When we were in high school or college, the competition was limited. There were a finite number of females in the "dating pool." Some of today's potential competition hadn't yet been born. It's true that certain men prefer the company of women many years their junior. As Tony Soprano would say, "fuggetaboutit." Write them off. You'll never make it with them because you don't have what they're looking for. Be pragmatic and don't beat a dead horse. Move on.

You're different than you were. You have maturity. You can converse intelligently on a wide variety of subjects. You've experienced life-both the good and the bad. You can look back with laughter and nostalgia as you reminisce with men your age, older, or even younger.

LTK: Do most people in their 60s want a relationship or a fling?

Susan Kiner: Most are looking for a relationship. That doesn't necessarily mean marriage, just companionship, fun and sex. However, if the relationship is wonderful - marriage ensues.

It is amazing that even "mature" adults repeat the mistakes of the past. Perhaps they've had a failed marriage (or two). The number of people, men and women, who cite fundamental differences when assessing the reason for a failed marriage, has amazed me. Dissimilarities in background, education, and religion top the list. If you and your ex spouse(s) were from diverse cultural backgrounds, had differing family experiences, differing levels of education, and a different religion, perhaps it is time to re-think what to look for in a new relationship.

While it may be true that opposites attract, and it has been tried (more than once) and if you found it had no staying power, now is the time to consider someone who is more like you.

LTK: What were some of the most common questions?

Susan Kiner: The most often asked question is "Are all the good ones taken?" Recently a cousin complained, "I could have dates every night, but the men down here (in South Florida) are awful. It must be something in the water. Don't any of them have a mirror? Or a brain?" What did she mean? What's the matter with mature single men today? The answer may be loneliness, and the inability to cope with it.

Some men, who are single after being married most or all of their adult lives, just can't seem to "get it together." They don't seem to be as resilient as women. Most men don't have a social network. Many men can't even dress themselves properly. They need someone to tell them what to wear, when to get a haircut, or buy new underwear.

The answer is simple: Men-look in the mirror. Clean up your act. Learn to use an iron instead of being seen in public resembling an unmade bed. A man's appearance can make the statement that he respects himself. Many men can't or won't follow this advice. Those who can and will are the undiscovered gems. They're the good ones-not yet taken. Every day a new crop of potential "good ones" comes on the market.

LTK: Can dating during menopause still be fun?'''

Susan Kiner: During perimenopause, the months or years prior to menopause, levels of two female hormones, estrogen and progesterone, vary irregularly. This happens as the ovaries struggle to keep up with the needs of an aging woman's body. The symptoms of menopause can result from these changing hormone levels. Even after menopause, when a woman's ovaries make much less estrogen and progesterone, the symptoms may continue.

Menopausal hormone therapy may help control these symptoms. Women who had their uterus removed can use estrogen alone to control her symptoms. Estrogen comes in many forms and dosages. One can use a skin patch or vaginal tablet or cream, take a pill, or get an implant, shot, or a vaginal ring insert.

A woman whose uterus is still intact must take progesterone or a progestin (synthetic progesterone) along with the estrogen. Progesterone or progestin is often taken as a pill, sometimes as part of the same pill as the estrogen. It also comes in patch form, shot, IUD (intrauterine device), vaginal gel, or suppository. This will prevent unwanted thickening of the lining of the uterus and reduce the risk of cancer of the uterus, an uncommon, but possible result of using estrogen alone.

The form your doctor suggests may depend on your symptoms. For example, patches or pills can relieve hot flashes, night sweats, and vaginal dryness. They will also slow or prevent bone loss and help delay osteoporosis while you are using them. Other forms-vaginal creams, tablets, or rings-are used to alleviate vaginal dryness, making "mature" sex feel just like when you were young.

Susan Kiner: I've divided this category into what older men want and what younger men want, and devote an entire chapter to it. Some older men want a woman to take care of them. If this turns you off-move on. Some want a companion with whom to enjoy their golden years. Some want friendship-not sex. Some want sex, and lots of it. Gloria Steinem refers to them as "the Viagra-crazed seventy-year-olds."

If sex is more important to you than it is to him, then you must ask him why. Depending on his answer, you'll have to decide whether you want the relationship to continue. Most men over 60 need some help in this department. Those who are unwilling to make this a priority before marriage will most certainly not do so after. Move on.

With maturity comes wisdom. Talking things through with a mature woman is often very comforting to a younger man. The guidance of a mature woman can help him not only in his career, but also in his interpersonal relationships. With age frequently comes the crumbling of inhibitions. Many younger men thoroughly relish the freedom from sexual inhibitions many older women offer.

Older women as a group often have their own economic and social standing. They have a power base, and are now able to select the man that they want rather than having to choose a man for financial support and to give them social status.

LTK: What tips can you offer those 60 and older to help them smoothly re-enter the dating game?

Susan Kiner: The old tried and true method of introductions by friends and family still works. It's safe because someone you know and trust, knows and trusts him. I call this the credible introduction. Many religious organizations sponsor senior singles clubs. You can meet people at work, whether paid or volunteer.

I urge all "mature" singles to just get out there! You won't meet anyone sitting in front of your television set.

LoveToKnow would like to thank Susan Kiner for sharing her advice. If you're ready to "get out there", get a copy of Sex After 60-New Rules for Dating for the Next Third of Your Life. For updates on its release date, as well as information on her other books, visit Susan's Facebook page.

GET YOUR WIFE BACK

Just continue reading and you will learn

Everything is not lost.

Imagine, your phone rings, you look at the screen and see that it is HER!

You are absolutely calm and sure of yourself. You know what she wants

to talk about and where the conversation will go.

Now think what would you feel at that moment, when she makes the first step to reunite.

Will you be happy and peaceful? Will you be glad that she called?

A much more important question:

BUILD A HARMONIOUS

in which your wife will love and cherish you.

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appearance before she left the house

to understand his point of view

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relationship, but Max didn’t think

During the conversation, Max could barely

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Everything else happened according to the scenario that you know, because the same probably happened to you.

It’s not a secret that when women separate from their husbands,

they look for a new relationship. It’s a lot easier for women

to find a sexual partner, because they are always surrounded

by men who are willing to be there, to give a shoulder to cry on.

Many men lurk around waiting for a woman to be free.

You cannot allow that your wife ends up with one of them!

You can’t even think that she will have sex with another man!

But you understand that sooner or later it will happen.

She will fall in to another relationship soon enough,

If you wait, your chances of getting her back will diminish.

My condolences, but I have good news! You can still get her back!

You will have to work harder, but there is still a chance!

Most families can reunite after separation!

Relationships often go through difficulties and misunderstandings. You most likely had serious arguments, after which you forgave each other. Sometimes, arguments lead to the demise of a relationship, though. And if you don’t start to act, having a good idea of what you need to do, your relationship will be doomed forever. It depends on you whether you will get your wife back, or if she will be gone forever.

Every woman acts according to her instincts, so her behavior is very easy to predict.

If you know how to affect her, you can save your relationship in a difficult situation.

There are special psychological techniques that can cause her to be attracted to you.

You have to understand that women often say one thing, while wanting another.

There are many false stereotypes pertaining to women. Often, movies also portray women in a false way. We know that completely different things are needed to make a woman love you. You will be surprised at how primitive female instincts are.

You can try and prove to your wife how much you love her, but it will not lead you to the desired result. Such behavior will only widen the gap between you. A woman simply can’t return your feelings in such a situation, this is very subconscious for them. Their DNA is programmed differently than that of men, and women can have completely different feelings than men..

  • Allow your depression take the best of you and beg your wife to come back
  • Try to use pity or guilt to get her back
  • Manipulate her using children, money or her friends
  • Beg for her to come back and swear your love to her
  • Try to buy her with presents and flowers
  • Argue and try to prove to her that there is logic in her return. Women do not use logic, they use their emotions and worries. You will learn about this later.
  • Do nothing, erasing any memory of her from your life

Unfortunately, partners often go through mutual misunderstandings, because no one teaches us how to act in a marriage. What we see on TV and in movies, what we are told by many friends, about the behavior of men and women is most often very far from reality. So if you are blaming yourself, I am telling you to stop! It is possible that not everything in the demise of your marriage is your fault! If you would have known exactly what to do to keep your marriage in a happy state, I’m sure you would have done everything that depended on you. Most likely you just didn’t have the right information. But everything can still be fixed.

Most of the time, all you have to do is get to step 2 of our course, and she will come back to you. Using the psychological techniques mentioned here, you can revive her love and the desire to be with you. She will start missing you and look at you with those eyes, which are full of love and tenderness.

  • Step 1 Correctly determine the reason for separation. What you have to do to get her back is know why exactly she left in the first place.
  • Step 2 Remove the negative expectations.
  • Step 3 Use psychological techniques to drive her to want to be with you again.

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a reaction you should have in different situations. Page 86

A method that will make your wife look at you

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What was the reason that led to separation. Often,

women don’t name the real reason when they leave.

How to act if your wife left you for another man

Methods that will cause your wife to be jealous and

How to replace negatives with positives

How to influence her through people around her

The truth about what attracts women to men and,

what a man should be like to pull women in. Page 9

Get your wife back into your life and into your bed using

a seduction plan that is oriented towards ex-wives. Page 79

Remove all of the resentment and restore trust, if it was lost.

Several simple methods are given in the book. Page 69

Become more sexually attractive in the eyes of your wife.

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How to protect your family in the future

by understanding the reasons for separation

The good news is that it’s a lot easier for her to fall in love with you than with another man. But you will need to come up with a different strategy to make her fall in love than the one you used at the beginning of your relationship.

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It’s easy to get your wife back, win her over, make her fall in love with you! But are you ready to become her “slave”? Will you be the man, of whom his friends say that he has no spine? Of course, if you have any self-respect you will never agree to such a trade. This is why we came up with the system of “Ways To Influence a Woman”. And you have the luck of getting it absolutely free!

Women read magazines like Cosmo since they are young girls. They listen to their friends and mothers on how to manipulate men. Women are taught from young age how to train men and control them.

But now men also have a way to learn some simple secrets that have been known to women for centuries, and use them in their goals!

  • You will learn how to become a man who is always attractive to women. When you perfect my tactics, many women will be attracted to you.
  • You will learn how to ask for forgiveness in a right way. This will help you not look weak in the eyes of a woman.
  • You will learn many important facts, which every man needs to know before trying to get his loved one back.
  • You will understand what is a perfect relationship to a woman. We are not talking about your physical appearance, financial situation, or social status!
  • You will have access to techniques that will allow you to manipulate your woman, making her behave the way that you want. She will no longer have emotional ups and downs!
  • You will learn how to argue correctly with a woman. This will allow you to win any argument, but remain “a good husband” to your wife.
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My method is around 90% effective. I would never insist that it works 100%,

because no one psychological tactic can be that effective.

In my experience working with couples, I learned that my method

gives great results. I have no doubt in what I’m teaching you, because

I have seen it work on thousands of men. This is why I’m ready

to return your money if you cannot get your wife back in two months

Once you download the book, you can begin following my advice. Everything you need to know is written in this course, all you have to do is read it and follow every step. It’s very simple!

Most of the free articles, of which there are many on the Internet,

can actually harm the relationship with your wife. I wanted to know

what people write in such articles, so I read many of them. Usually,

they include completely useless information, or advertisements

of trainings, seminars, and magic rituals.

For four years I held trainings that taught men how to effectively seduce women and held private consultations, which have helped many reach perfect results. ALL of the people that I have consulted were completely satisfied with the results. I am also the co-author of the books “Get Your Girlfriend Back” and “Get Your Boyfriend Back”, as well as the course “Get Your Husband Back”.

You were able to learn some of my concepts and exercises during Sergio’s training sessions. Today, I have almost completely stopped holding seminars and personal sessions, concentrating on my business. Sometimes I write books and articles, but only when I have inspiration and topics that I believe will help people.

I want to tell you that my methodology is very effective and everything I included in the book works. Just read the course and you will make sure that I am right.

My approach to restoring broken relationships is very effective.

I can teach you a step-by-step technique that will help you

I will not only teach you how to get her back, but will show you

how to make her fall in love with you again, how to win her over.

It’s not difficult to get your wife back, but it is difficult to keep her

and cause her to have feelings for you. I will help you with that.

In addition to the book, I will include the course “Ways To Influence a Woman”, which will help you become the leader in your relationship. The recommendations included in this course will help you:

  • Entice interest in your wife towards you, make her respect you and treat you like a king;
  • Eliminate mood swings and unpredictable behavior;
  • Make every one of her arguments work for you, while continuing to be the best man for her;
  • Make her want to seduce you herself;
  • And much more.

  • Constant contact – possibly you live together or have to deal with each other on a day-to-day basis. In this case, the strategy changes completely.
  • Wives leave their husbands when they have another man a lot more often than girlfriends do.
  • Children.
  • Usually, both parties want to try to restore their relationship. This happens a lot frequently in marriage than it does outside it, because the relationship is longer, you have more in common, are used to each other and have many pleasant memories together. When you got married, both of you chose your partner “till death do you apart”. But you have to remember, that there are also negative memories and
  • You know each other too well and it will be difficult to fool her when you are trying to pretend indifferent or self-assured. Wives usually feel lies very well, so strait manipulations will be perceived negatively.
  • Difficult questions of divorce, if you haven’t yet divorced. Our course will give you detailed instructions on what to do in this case.

Your chances grow smaller with each day.

There is no point to do so much work, consult clients for years, take parts in television programs and write articles in order to lie and disappear in the end. We are practicing consultants and the book is the result of years of research and client work.

You wouldn’t think that we would place all this in jeopardy to steal $70! If you have any questions or difficulties when you are placing your order, please feel free to contact our technical support. You will find all of the contact information at the bottom of the page.

Copyright 2011-2017,Sergio Arise and Garry Ideal. Get Your Wife Back. All Rights Reserved

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