Scorpio woman dating aries man

Aries Man in Love

When he's in love, the Aries man becomes single-minded when struck by Cupid's arrow! This cardinal fire sign does not hesitate to make the first move, and he's not afraid to take risks or to appear foolish. Headstrong and impetuous, he learns the hard way, by making mistakes, a lot of them.

Aries loves to flirt and enjoys every nuance of that first attraction. If a woman catches his interest, he will all but stand on his head to get her attention. Like a schoolboy, his approach can be annoying and even overwhelming. When he is rejected, as he often is (because his approach is not for everyone), he bounces back and is happy to keep trying. His heart is easily (if temporarily) broken, but nothing can keep this man down.

Once he's smitten, Aries focuses all his attention on the object of his desire. Cardinal fire is intense! Like a match igniting, his heart is instantly aflame, and he won't be swayed. When an Aries becomes infatuated, it is only too obvious to his friends, for he single-mindedly speaks of little else. This might be a bit of a joke to those who know him well. When he encounters her, his behavior may be cartoonishly awkward, his feelings overly apparent. He can't hide his heart; it hangs nakedly on his sleeve! Some women find this sort of attention unwelcome, but many are charmed by his directness, sincerity, and passion.

Aries plays by his own rules. He doesn't care how convention says he should behave, and that definitely includes his love life. He will direct his energies with full intensity toward whatever he is most interested in at the moment. What he wants, he pursues, but for all his ardor, he can give up and move on with surprising swiftness if he doesn't get the response he wants within a certain span of time. Depending on what else is going on in his chart (Moon, ascendant, other planets, aspects, and houses), he may give up quickly or persevere for a while, but patience and persistence are not his strong points.

The level of Aries' impulsiveness is determined by how mature he is and the kind of self-exploration he's done. An immature Aries can be head over heels in love every other day with someone new. If he's learned how to develop relationships and understands the rewards of nurturing a serious love relationship, his impulsive nature manifests as spontaneity and openness to new experience.

Sexual Immaturity

Aries is a fire sign, and this man has enough passion for several men. This can be a problem for the less mature Aries, who has not learned about boundaries and may not be willing to hear a 'no'. An immature Aries can be infantile about sexuality; he wants what he wants now and can't comprehend why his partner's needs should matter to him. If he is in love with a strong woman who can stand up for herself, he can learn the hard way 'no means no.' A partner who can hold her own will command his respect; the danger is he will take advantage of someone with weak self esteem and poor boundaries. He does not mean harm and does not even recognize he is taking advantage; like a child, he simply takes what he can get until he reaches a limit he can't go past.

Aries wants a playmate more than a soulmate; someone who can meet and match his energy and enthusiasm, and who won't hesitate to yell at him to stop when he gets carried away. Excitement is one of his mainstays in life. If an Aries commits to marriage, it will take something drastic to make him stray. His Libra Earth opposite sign makes sure of that! However, he is self-centred and if he feels his needs are not being met (particularly sexual needs), he may see nothing wrong with moving on.

Aries can be jealous, and though he will try his best not to show it, he is not good at hiding his feelings. At root, he is terribly insecure and needs a lot of attention and positive reinforcement. Deeply competitive, he is an alpha male (or sometimes an alpha wannabe) who can't stand the thought another man might get the love, sex, and attention that belongs to him. Yes, he is possessive, but he doesn't want to be possessed himself. He has a double standard about a lot of things because his emotions are fixed on 'me'. In order to grow, he will have to embrace his Libra Earth qualities, learning his partner's needs matter as much as his own and that fairness and balance are important to his own long-term happiness.

No one can turn on the charm better than an Aries man who is in love! His childlike directness combined with the innate grace of his Libra side can melt the heart of any woman he chooses as long as he is her type. An acquired taste, he has a lot to learn and far to go, but despite his blunders, he is quick to learn from his mistakes. He is an innocent at heart, and loveable as a child.

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Even now after we have both been in failed marriages & have been out on dates he still is hard to read & show his emotions. We just keep ending up finding each other but it's mostly a friendship connection as he doesn't seem as sexually driven than other guys I have been with. I still can't work him out!

(Whenever I text him. I always feel like I'm bothering him and he says no I'm not and that's all.) Is there any way to know if he is really into me or am I just wasting my time ?

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This is Frances. I just want to say your advise is completely right. I did not call him and found our today that he is already in a new relationship. My heart is shattered and I'm trying my hardest not to stoop to his level by seeking revenge. I know this experience is taught me to hold my cards closer and as much as I am an open and honest person I have very little trust for anyone right now. It makes me sick to my stomach as I felt he was the most genuine guy and caring person and he was always seemed as truly happy in our relationship as I was. I'm angry that a 36 year old man could not have the decency to approach the situation and tell me how it is. He has caused so much more hurt and pain by going behind my back and pretending like he wanted to be friends afterwards as if there was no intention of being with anyone for a while. Yes I am heart broken because I thought there was still hope for us. I feel completely delusional like everything that had happened between us was a fragment of my imagination. WTF would he meet my family and make me a part of his and say things about our future (not that long ago), talk about marriage (not that long ago) and then take off with someone else? I loved him on every level and am freaking out about how I am going to deal with this. I want to remain my normal confident, happy and content self, but I feel like this guy has totally f*cked me over and right now I want revenge.

Some one please help, I am seriously too good to deserve this.

My Virgo Man and I have also just split up just recently. We were about to move in together and it was meant to be a happy time, but he became suddenly distant towards me. So I confronted the situation and he said it was work, our different ideas but he still wanted to try for a happy future together.

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